Stranger in a Strange Land: Understanding Autism and Individual Differences

Introduction to Autism and Society

by Marc Draco (62), Middlesborough

Robert Heinlein’s 1961 science fiction novel, Stranger in a Strange Land, tells the story of a human teenager born in space who is raised by Martians. He navigates his experiences on Earth, which prompts reflections on social norms and differences. It’s fundamental to human nature to single out the different; this skill has aided our survival. While physical differences are evident, mental variations are often hidden.

Natural variations in behavior and cognition mark an individual as "different." This often carries a negative connotation. People have a tendency to exclude what they do not understand, fearing it poses a threat to their social unit. Tribalism runs deep in human society.

The Role of Tribalism

Humans, like our ape relatives, are both social and highly tribal. From socio-economic groups to childhood cliques and adult friendships, we are defined by similarities and differences. But what happens when you do not fit in?

For many on what is now called the autistic spectrum, brain function varies significantly compared to the majority. Many experience challenges that are prefixed by “dys-,” such as dyslexia (reading disability), dyscalculia (math-related problems), and dyspraxia (movement coordination issues). The Greek root "dys" means “abnormal” or “impaired.” As a result, many face stigmas surrounding their neurodivergence. Even ADHD is often labeled as a disorder. Interestingly, people on the autism spectrum often see others as different just as they experience the same judgment from society.

The Surge in Autism Diagnoses

Autism spectrum diagnoses are on the rise due to improvements in diagnostic criteria and heightened awareness among healthcare professionals. Predictions indicate that the ratio has escalated from 1 in 100,000 to approximately 1 in 37. Even though these figures seem alarming, individuals on the spectrum remain a small, diverse minority. I received my diagnosis just last year at age 61.

Personal Experiences of Being "Different"

Growing up in a world recovering from World War II and during the height of the Cold War was particularly unusual. I often felt like a stranger in a familiar land—a kid nobody wanted on their team for football. Coordinating both legs and arms to run, let alone dribble a ball, was a challenge. Instead, I spent my school hours in fascination with the metamorphosis of tadpoles into frogs while others raced to master long division.

This experience paints the picture of an odd child. I didn’t conform to what the majority deemed normal. While laws have been enacted to level the playing field for people with visible differences, such as race, the complexities of the brain remain poorly understood. Invisible physical symptoms, such as hypermobility, complicate this further.

The Moment of Realisation

Understanding my lived experience as typical for someone on the spectrum was not just enlightening; it was blinding. A dear friend shared a Keynote presentation from Jane Green MBE, the founder of SEDSConnective. As I watched, it felt like mental flashbulbs were popping off. I realized, “Oh yeah, I did that… I do that… I’ve been there.” This awareness led to a profound revelation: I’m not strange; I am simply a "stranger in a world of people who consider themselves normal."

The Value of Acceptance

As more individuals share their personal stories, the stigma surrounding neurodivergent conditions begins to dissipate. Acceptance can foster an understanding climate where differences are celebrated. For example, incorporating spaces for neurodivergent individuals in workplaces and educational institutions allows for diverse perspectives to flourish.

It’s important to acknowledge that those on the autistic spectrum often possess unique strengths. They approach problems differently, which can lead to creative and innovative solutions that those considered "normal" might overlook.

Concluding Thoughts

While I’d love to delve even deeper into what makes me tick, I'll refrain from waxing lyrical too long lest I risk losing the reader’s attention.

About Marc

Marc Draco is an autodidactic polymath with an unflinchingly cruel teacher. He resides "up norf" in a place known for its Premier League football club and a dubious record for the largest number of fast-food outlets in a mile. Many still consider him strange, including himself, though he can at least laugh at it now. He is owned by a cat and still believes that digital watches are a pretty neat idea.

Follow Marc on X @marcdraco63.

Why Understanding Differences Matters

In conclusion, fostering an understanding of differences, especially those associated with autism, is crucial in today’s society. By celebrating diversity in experiences and perspectives, we create a more inclusive environment for everyone. Understanding contributes to the dismantling of stigma and promotes acceptance.

Let us embrace our unique journeys as we learn from one another.